Lesson #01   What? You Thought This Was Easy?
When I started in this business, my partner told me to surf the net. Being the student to the mentor, I didn't question. I merely packed my...

Lesson #02   Message Board Rant!
Realising I'm overstating what you already know, there are many fine resource boards on the Internet. Having said that, I've read and continue to...

Lesson #03   Time to Stay, Time to Go!
Obi-Wan, the XBox game, is so awesome, I couldn't resist sitting down to play. I'm one of the few who has never claimed to be a gamer. My skills...

Lesson #04   When Reality Strikes
Allow me to create a scenario: You've heard about the adult industry. You're a surfer by night or on your off time. Nowhere else can money be made so...

Lesson #05   The Trouble With Pay Sites
I'm going to step out onto a limb and make a statement. The trouble with pay sites is directly related to the pay site owner, not the surfers. There...

Lesson #06   Vulnerability
I want to propose a hypothetical situation. See if this fits anyone you know. Or, perhaps, even yourselves. In the scenario I'm creating, you are...

Lesson #07   Road Less Traveled
Lest you think this article is about a poem, it isn't. Take a moment to read the words. The first time I ever read this poem was when I was a...

Lesson #08   Cozy Marketing Tips
When building your sites, there are many factors that require your attention. As the seasons change, so do your surfers' tastes. There are fads and...

Lesson #09   Easy Money!
I've often heard the days of making easy money are gone. Interestingly enough, the webmasters I've spoken with about the Internet Gold Rush don't...

Lesson #10   Mistakes I've Made!
When I first started in the biz, I used a single third-party credit card processor for my pay sites. They were great. The stats were easy to read. My...

Lesson #11   Affiliate Program Hell
Before opening an affiliate program, STOP! THINK! LISTEN! It seems everyone is opening affiliate programs these days. From the 50/50...

Lesson #12   Customer Service
I just received an email from a company whose message was twofold. The letter began with words of praise for themselves as a fresh, new company and...

Lesson #13   How Many Hours Do I Really Work?
I think I sit at my computer, working, twenty-four hours a day. Knowing that is a patent lie, I decided to keep a diary log of how much time I...

Lesson #14   Snippets Part 1
There are times when my connection to the Internet goes away. There's no one to blame. No one to yell at. It happens. Storms. Electrical failures....

Lesson #15   Snippets Part 2
We were at a conference and a friend of ours whipped out his trusty laptop, so he could check his sites. Suddenly, he realised his sites were loading...

Lesson #16   The Water Cooler Of The Internet!
The resource board is an excellent meeting place for those of us in this industry. Filled with delectable bytes of invaluable information, resource...

Lesson #17   April's Coming!
How many of you are in total disarray? Are you ready to pay your taxes? Do you have them calculated? I'm never ready to pay taxes and No. Hell no,...

Lesson #18   Let's Talk About Marketing Text
I ask all of my readers this. Do you realise this adult industry is all about sales? When you are writing text to entice your targets, what goes on...

Lesson #19   What's the Point of a Facial Scene?
When I hear the word facial, my immediate imagery is that of a woman, scrunching up her face, getting ready to swallow globs of cum. She knows,...

Lesson #20   Spam. Food For Webmasters
I have not written very much about spam. It's a topic that makes webmasters foam at the mouth. The invective, the sheer passion in their collective...

Lesson #21   Your Site
During the course of my Internet travels, I've reviewed and critiqued many sites. My eyes have seen the glory and the tragedy, from the small gallery...

Lesson #22   Freedom of Expression
It has been said that we, as a world people, have the right and the freedom to express our feelings, give out our opinions, using whatever language...

Lesson #23   Disturbance in The Force!
My hairdresser is gay. I'm sure he knows much about prejudice and living under a cloud of disapproval from the majority straights. I have found him...

Lesson #24   Marketing Plushie!
Plushophilia is a fetish involving the veneration of stuffed animals. To understand this fetish, all you have to do is remember back to your...

Lesson #25   Burn a Newbie!
Since I moderate a message board and write for a resource site, one would think my patience is everlasting when it comes to newbies. It isn't. I have...

Lesson #26   Let the Newbie Beware!
If it looks too easy or too good to be true, presume it is. I am taking the high road on this one. I read board after board, with newbies complaining...

Lesson #27   How Do You Do It?
When I entered the adult industry, I was just coming off of a three year hiatus from my former mainstream profession. I had plenty of time on my...

Lesson #28   AIDS: Practise Safe Sex!
I'm not a young chick anymore. From what I'm reading, it's a good thing to be my age these days. AIDS. That fearsome, mind altering disease has...

Lesson #29   Webmaster Failure Tale!
Once upon a time, there was a surfer, who loved looking at naked women. He loved the wide open vaginas, the models posing in a variety of positions....

Lesson #30   Promises Promises: Why Not Just Pay Cash?
I wonder how e-commerce survives. For almost six years, I've heard and seen the same thing happen over and over again. I've fallen for it myself,...

Lesson #31   Office or Home?
What are the pros and cons of living within a reasonable distance radius of your employer? Wake up in the morning, throw some clothes on, head over...

Lesson #32   Under Attack!
Today is the day I've installed two spy ware programs to search out and destroy that which is trying to hijack my computer. I've wasted several hours...