Working in this industry has taught me much about our sexual culture. I’ve learned that the brain is truly the decisive organ when it comes to arousal. A man may be at the mercy of his penis but it’s the sexual tastes of that man that dictate the stiffness of his cock. To put it simply, some men are sexually attracted to big girls. The problem for some adult webmasters is that they don’t know what to look for when shopping for BBW content.
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"If you understand the market and appreciate the models who pose for the content then you'll sell BBW more successfully." |
I’m what you call a chunky gal. Always have been. I lived through a period in the eighties where I was fairly thin. My thinness was the result of a lot of factors but mainly I was too lazy to cook and too poor to go out to eat. After I became a mother I got a better job and made sure there was always food in the house. My weight went back to what it was when I was a middle class teenager. Chunky. In all my post-pubescent life -even at my skinniest- I never weighed less than one hundred pounds. I am genetically designed to be chunky, thick, plump.
I’m reasonably attractive by today’s standards. I’ve got clear skin, good hair and symmetrical features. I photograph well and I wear clothes well. I have a nice pair of fairly perky tits for an old gal and my cellulite is less visible than most of the ladies my age and size. I’ve taken pictures of myself. I look at those pictures and I see a plump woman, not a BBW. I’m close, but there’s a huge difference.
If ever there were a misinformed niche, the BBW niche would be it.
There are niches that some of us don’t like on a personal level. We don’t necessarily condemn these other niches. Instead, we choose to not promote the niches that we don’t like. The BBW niche is one of those niches. If you want to sell BBW content and programs you had better understand that you’ll never get anywhere with this niche if you’re a weight snob. If you think a chunky girl is a BBW model, then this might not be the niche for you.
Prejudicially, there’s a commonly held belief that a gal with twenty or thirty extra pounds is BBW material. She’s not. Not to the men who love Big Beautiful Women. The BBW lover wants more than just a little extra meat. They need their models to have folds and folds of soft, buttery wonderfulness. For the BBW lover it’s the fat that’s sexually alluring, the more the better. If you display models that are merely plump and try to advertise them as BBW, you’ll alienate surfers who want the real thing.
So many adult webmasters think that any pudgy gal will do as site filler for a BBW page. This is a mistake. Yes, there are men who like thick models but thick models are not enough for BBW lovers. If you want to buy chunky girl content then build a site for chunky lovers.
Another mistake some webmasters make when they promote BBW is to use demeaning references in their marketing text. If you describe the models on your site in a negative fashion, you’ll likely insult your buying audience. Men who are into big women don’t think that these ladies are inferior. They don’t think that large lovelies are funny or something to be ashamed of. If you insult the models then you insult the men who are willing to pay money to see them.
The adult Internet allows us all to explore our erotic fantasies easily and privately. The adult net proves that mainstream purveyors of physical beauty are wrong. Not everyone favors a single type or form. Some like them thin. Some like them busty. Some like them blonde. Some like them big and beautiful.
We all want to make money. We want to be where the cash is. The BBW niche is a solid market. If you understand that market and appreciate the models who pose for the content then you’ll sell BBW more successfully.
The mind tells the man what he likes and the penis follows. A lot of men (and women) love Big Beautiful Women. If you want to make money with BBW you have to believe in your product. If you believe then you can sell.